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The Power of Social-Emotional Learning: Insights from Benjamin Davies


Social-emotional learning (SEL) is not just an educational buzzword. It’s a transformative framework that can change how schools approach learning, relationships, and collaboration. Benjamin Davies, Head of Colina Learning Center, is a shining example of how SEL can be embedded into a school’s framework to create meaningful change. During our conversation with Benjamin Davies, Head of Colina Learning Center, he shared his journey from St. Andrews in Buenos Aires to Colina, and how SEL has shaped his educational philosophy.

At St. Andrews, Benjamin championed SEL initiatives that significantly shifted school culture. Weekly student circles gave children a space to express their thoughts and emotions, fostering an environment of trust and mutual respect. One key result? A noticeable transformation in the way students interacted - pranks and mischief were replaced with moments of gratitude and a stronger sense of community.

But SEL wasn’t just about emotional expression. It was also about equipping students with tools to collaborate effectively. Benjamin introduced the Egg Project, a pioneering initiative that used an algorithm to create optimal group dynamics. Students were encouraged to seek help from peers before turning to teachers, building problem-solving skills and teamwork. The results were astounding: students using this method achieved higher academic performance and developed stronger collaborative abilities. However, implementing such initiatives required bold leadership and trust in both teachers and students.

At Colina Learning Center, Benjamin continues to lead with SEL at the forefront. His approach includes empowering teachers through team coaching, fostering authentic relationships, and creating supportive structures like the “Stepping In” ritual - a Monday morning activity where teachers engage in their own SEL practices. This focus on shared humanity and community building is central to his leadership style.

Benjamin also highlights the critical role of engaging families in the school’s vision. At Colina, parents participate in Learning Partnership Meetings and Transform Events, where they connect with the school’s mission and their children’s learning journey. These moments ensure alignment across the community, from teachers to families, creating a shared purpose.

One of the most compelling aspects of Benjamin’s philosophy is his call for schools to embrace a clear vision and integrate every part of the educational experience - curriculum, teaching methods, assessments, and community engagement—around that vision.  

Actionable Steps to Implement SEL in Your School

Cultivate a Safe and Inclusive Classroom Culture

Creating a classroom environment where students feel secure and valued is foundational to Social Emotional Learning (SEL). Studies show that when students feel emotionally safe, they are more engaged and perform better academically (Durlak et al., 2011). Setting clear ground rules that emphasize respect, active listening, and empathy ensures that all students feel comfortable expressing themselves without fear of judgment. Educators can foster this culture by modeling inclusive language, using restorative practices for conflict resolution, and encouraging peer support systems.

Model and Encourage Emotional Regulation

Research suggests that students learn emotional regulation best when teachers model these behaviors themselves (Jennings & Greenberg, 2009). By openly sharing their own emotional experiences and demonstrating healthy coping strategies, such as deep breathing, reframing negative thoughts, or setting realistic goals - educators help students develop self-awareness and resilience. When students see adults navigating challenges effectively, they are more likely to adopt similar strategies in their own lives.

Teach and Practice Active Listening

Active listening is a critical SEL skill that enhances interpersonal relationships and classroom harmony. According to CASEL (Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning), students who practice active listening develop stronger communication skills and empathy. Educators can facilitate this by implementing structured discussions where students paraphrase what their peers say before responding. Encouraging eye contact, nodding, and asking clarifying questions reinforces the importance of truly hearing and understanding one another.

Start the Day with a Check-In

Morning check-ins provide educators with insight into their students’ emotional states, allowing for early intervention when needed. Research highlights that daily emotional check-ins help students develop self-awareness and create a sense of belonging (Brackett et al., 2019). Simple systems like the “stoplight check-in” (green = good, yellow = okay, red = needing support) or digital surveys help students reflect on their emotions and provide teachers with valuable feedback to tailor their approach for the day.

Create Opportunities for Collaboration

Collaborative learning has been shown to enhance SEL competencies, particularly in teamwork, problem-solving, and emotional intelligence (Zins et al., 2004). Group projects that require students to plan, delegate tasks, and navigate challenges together foster cooperation and communication. Teachers can assign roles that emphasize active participation and reflection, helping students understand their own strengths and areas for growth within a team setting.

Nurture a Culture of Kindness

Kindness is a core component of SEL, and studies show that recognizing and rewarding prosocial behavior increases students’ motivation to be empathetic and supportive (Lyubomirsky, Sheldon, & Schkade, 2005). Simple classroom practices such as a “kindness jar” where students note positive actions they’ve observed or a weekly “shout-out” session to recognize classmates’ efforts reinforce a culture of compassion. Encouraging students to reflect on how acts of kindness impact their peers helps deepen their emotional intelligence.

Integrate SEL into Academics

SEL should not be an isolated lesson but woven into daily academic instruction. Research supports integrating SEL into subjects like language arts, where students analyze characters' emotions, or science, where they collaborate on experiments (Taylor et al., 2017). Assignments that encourage self-reflection, conflict resolution, and teamwork build both cognitive and emotional skills. For example, journaling exercises on personal growth or historical discussions on ethical decision-making make SEL a natural part of learning.

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    But what challenges do school leaders face when implementing SEL? How can teachers be empowered to lead with empathy? And what does it take to build a school culture where students thrive emotionally, socially, and academically?

    Watch Benjamin Davies’ Expert Talk to discover the answers and learn actionable strategies to bring SEL into your school. This is your chance to explore innovative practices that not only improve academic outcomes but also nurture the emotional well-being of every member of the school community.

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